It didn’t start yesterday. Not when she first looked at me over her laptop, not with her quiet “good morning” by the coffee machine. Most likely, I just didn’t want to admit it before.
Every time she walks into the office, I have to make an effort not to look up. Or, rather, to look up — but not too quickly. I’ve started noticing how I catch myself listening not just to what she says in meetings, but how she says it. Where she pauses, how she smiles when she agrees. Sometimes it feels like she holds my gaze too — but maybe I’m just imagining it. We all want to see what we want to see.
Sometimes we exchange a word at the elevator — nothing meaningful, but for me, it becomes the highlight of my day. I think she senses something... but what if she doesn’t? What if she’s just being polite? Or worse — what if she suspects something, and it makes her uncomfortable?
This is completely inappropriate. I’m her supervisor. Even if she did feel something too — any sign of affection from me could put her in a difficult position. I don’t want to misuse my role, even indirectly. I don’t want her to feel any pressure. But it’s getting harder to stay silent.
Each day I fear more and more: what if I just keep this all inside forever? Or, worse, take a step and ruin everything — the work, the team, her comfort.
If only there were a way to know if she feels the same. Without awkward explanations. Without putting someone innocent in an awkward situation. So that if there is something mutual — we both know. And if not — no one ever finds out. And I can let go. Or at least try.
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